Hello! I’m Soleil, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Associate based in Seattle, WA. I see clients in person and online. I bring a warm, grounded, and authentic presence to my work. I support individuals and couples who are feeling burnt out, overwhelmed, or stuck, as well as those navigating relationship challenges, anxiety, depression, panic, perfectionism, sex and intimacy concerns, and major life transitions.
In our work together, I draw from attachment theory, somatic therapy, narrative therapy, and Internal Family Systems (IFS) lens to support insight, regulation, and meaningful change.
Clients who tend to thrive in therapy with me are curious and motivated. They’re open to challenging old patterns that are no longer serving them. They also value the healing power of laughter. My approach is warm, collaborative, and client-centered, with a strong focus on supporting the nervous system and helping you feel more grounded, connected, and resilient.
I feel honored to sit with you as we explore what it means to be human. I aim to create a space that feels safe and supportive, where connection is possible and your own healing wisdom can emerge.
We aren’t meant to heal alone.
Maybe you are here because you are feeling overwhelmed by the weight of the world. You might be noticing it’s difficult to catch a full breath, or you might be feeling a general sense of heaviness in your body. Burnout can show up in our work life, but it can also look like not wanting to connect with your partner in ways that used to feel good. It can feel like no matter what you do, it is never enough. For some, it might present as painful, and debilitating PMS. However you are showing up, I am here to support you and empower you in finding restoration and healing .
I believe the body plays a central role in healing. In therapy, this often looks like slowing down, noticing, and creating space for what wants to shift. This kind of gentle attunement supports nervous system healing, helps release what’s been holding you back, and creates room for new insight and connection. My approach is shaped by my lived experience as a sensitive person and by paying close attention to how healing unfolds through both body and mind.
I bring a lived understanding of perfectionism, burnout, and anxiety into our space together. I’m especially attuned to how these experiences show up in relational and systemic patterns, not just in our thoughts.
I’m not a blank-slate therapist. I show up present and engaged in the way that I bring care, curiosity, and respect for your experience. Whether working with individuals or couples, my goal is to create a space where you feel safe enough to show up authentically, build awareness, and find healing.
When I’m not sitting with clients, you’ll find me in the forest, in the ocean, playing with my puppy, making things with my hands, or spending time with people I love. I balance all of that by watching sh*tty TV and getting very excited about hobbies I fully intend to start someday.
How I work
Offerings
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Individuals who seek my support may be:
Experiencing burnout, overwhelm, or chronic stress
Healing from relationship conflict, infidelity & rupture
Navigating major life transitions
High school/ college transitions
Processing grief and loss
Feeling burdened by shame
Exploring sex and intimacy concerns
Working through perfectionism, body image concerns, or self-criticism
Seeking support around pelvic health and reproductive concerns such as PMS, infertility, endometriosis.
Dealing with chronic illness
Wanting to build a deeper, more trusting relationship with their body
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Couples who seek my support may be:
Wanting to strengthen intimacy
Feeling stuck in the same patterns and unsure how to create lasting change
Queer, non-monogamous relationships
Navigating grief and loss
Peri-natal, Post-natal transitions
Struggling with mismatched desire, sexual concerns, or intimacy avoidance
Working through jealousy, resentment, or attachment wounds
Experiencing recurring conflict, emotional disconnection
Healing after infidelity or rebuilding trust following relational rupture
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We carry our stress, anxiety, and past experiences in our physical bodies. This may look like tight shoulders, a racing heart, shallow breathing, pelvic pain, feeling tired but wired, and so on. Somatic therapy works with the physical body to release and unblock old patterns that get trapped in our physical bodies.
Examples of this work include:
Breath work
Movement
Guided touch
Restorative Yoga
Grounding exercises
This work can be especially helpful for people working through:
Anxiety and chronic stress
Burnout
Chronic pain
Difficulty feeling present in the body
Patterns that feel hard to change through talk therapy alone
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I do not take insurance - I am not paneled with insurance companies, however I do accept HSA cards and can provide a superbill. This means you would first need to pay with either a credit card or your HSA account. Once payment is received, I can send you a PDF superbill that you then submit to your insurance company. Whether your insurance company is willing to reimburse you for services depends on your policy and type of service you receive. Please don’t hesitate to ask if you have any questions!
If you would like to use your out-of-network benefits, please contact your insurance company and ask the following questions:
What is my deductible for out-of-network psychotherapy?
Does my policy cover these billing codes:
For Individuals, the code is 90837.
For couples, the code is 90847.
What is the percent reimbursed after I reach my deductible?
How do I submit a receipt when I’m ready to submit?
Am I able to get reimbursed with an LMFTA license?
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Individual
Intake Session (60 minutes): $200
Standard session (53-60 minutes): $170
Extended session (90 minutes): $250
Relational
Intake Session (60 minutes): $200
Standard session (53-60 minutes): $200
Extended session (90 minutes): $280
I ask my clients to commit to a regular weekly appointment time, and to cancel only as needed. This consistency is how I am able to financially maintain a small private practice and offer the best care possible to my clients.
I am not able to see clients more than once a week, except for occasional emergencies.
I also take approximately 6 weeks off a year to spend with my family.
On occasion, I have bi-weekly appointments available for clients who are not in crisis.
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I offer in-person therapy at 3123 Fairview Ave E, Eastlake, Seattle, WA 98102, and virtual therapy for people in Washington State.
Parking -
Free street parking - Free parking is available directly in front of the building, and on Fairview Avenue to the north and south.
Metro Buses- Metro routes 70 and 49.
North of the Ship Canal - Additional buses stop in the University District, and we are a neighborhood, which is a 1/2 mile walk across the University Bridge.
Accessibility - Unfortunately, my office is not accessible by elevator. Please let me know if there is anything else I can do to address other access needs.
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Ms – Marriage and Family Therapy, Seattle Pacific University
BS – Psychology, University of Victoria (CA)
Trainings –
Currently completing Yoga Teacher Training 200 hr
Internal Family Systems Foundation Master Class with Kendhal Hart - 2026
Palpating the Sacred – Vagal, Parasympathetic, Somatic Training – 2026
Polyvagal & Nervous System Regulation for burnout – 2026
Mindfulness Meditation with Tara Brach and Jack Kornfield 2 2026
Emotionally Focused Therapy Training at the Vancouver Center for Emotionally Focused Therapy
with Dr. Yolanda von Hochauf; Dr. Veronica Kallos-Lilly. April 2025Narrative Therapy – Theory Integration – July 2024
Intro to Internal Family Systems – October 2023
Professional Affiliations –
American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT)
American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (AAMFT)
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You’re welcome to fill out the contact form or email me directly at soleil@soleiltherapy.co. From there, we can schedule a free 20-minute consultation to determine whether it’s a good fit. I look forward to connecting with you.
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